Are children wrong or right?

Children are always right. It is we who force them to be wrong and in this way we take them away from us. Today we will discuss this topic.

When your children were so young, they would come home and tell you everything. You had to listen even when you didn't have time. Today you run after them and ask what happened all day?

Doesn't that happen? They used to come after us to talk to us. Today we are running after them. But they close the door of their room and put their password on their phone. And if you put pressure on them to answer, they can't tell the truth. Where has the relationship changed?

He used to tell us everything. But now he has stopped telling us. Why?Because when they were small and common things, we would be happy to hear them, we would accept them.Every living soul please make it the routine of your life. "Every living soul needs acceptance" So when they were younger, they would share things, we would be happy and accept them as they were.

Are children wrong or right?

They would tell us something every day. Once they grew up.They come to you and say they told you, "Mom, you know what happened today, we closed the class and we went to see the movie." How did we react? Do we smile no. This kid shared it using his honesty habit, just like when he was little. But instead of accepting it from us that day, he rejected it For the first time a few days later he said something else and then he was rejected by us. So slowly he stopped telling us. We thought he had stopped doing this and so he didn't tell us anything.

But he didn't stop doing anything. He just stopped telling us things. Is it wrong to go to the movies after schooling? If they are in a party, is it wrong for them to try cigarettes?Is it wrong to come back from a party late at night? Is it wrong to over speed his car while driving? Yes it is but when everyone in the class is going.And if no one goes, they make fun of him. And then they separate it from their group.

Are children wrong or right?

And he wants to be part of that group.Is it right to feel the urge to go for it now?But we didn't tell our child that day.We had to say and believe That you are feeling like everyone else around you is doing You feel like doing whatever vibrates around you That's fine by you. If you said that, your child would be so close to you. And then we could say,"But what are you thinking?" "It's not right for you.""You're right, but that's not right for you."infomationzon.

Is there a difference between them?"You're right."

"Your covetousness is fine as well." "Yet, that is not bravo."

Now that you have their respect, they are closer to you. So they are more likely to be impressed by what you say. But we said, In any case, we said, "You're off-base, what's going on with you? What will people say?" The children will distance themselves from you. Now they will start banking classes and will not be able to tell you.

Are children wrong or right?

In today's world if you want to protect your children then there is only one way and it should be. They should be able to come and tell you everything that is happening in their life. Absolutely everything and everything Not something you will always like.It will not happen.But you want to take care of them and protect them?

They have to come and tell everything. But children do not say anything to their parents. The distance between them has increased due to not talking And that is why there are counselors in schools today.What is the distinction between a guide and a parent? Why would that be a distinction between a guide and a parent? There was no counselor when we were in school. There was no counselor in our school, was there?

Every school today must have a counselor. what is the difference? Why would a child go to a stranger to talk about his problems instead of going to his parents?Why?What is the distinction between a guide and a parentSee the difference

Advisor-----Parents

Are children wrong or right?

A counselor will not scold. And most importantly, if you are a counselor. And if I come and tell you that I have made this mistake. Not just one mistake, suppose I have made a big mistake.It is possible for children to make mistakes today. And if I come and tell Then listening to me Within you, no critical or decisive thought will arise for me. So when such a thought does not arise in you about me, then what kind of vibration will I get from you? What kind of vibration do I get from you? Respect and acceptance regardless of what I have done. This is unconditional acceptance. And because I am getting that vibe from you. I am comfortable in telling everything.

But what happens when a child says this to his parents? Not only in words, but also in thoughts, this (negative) vibration prevents the child from telling us anything.

And then who will help them?

An advisor can only listen to them. But they cannot give love, strength and blessing like parents. So what time does every parent need? Yes? And this means that every human being will need to be a guardian for all other human beings. Which means we will look at the person, his habits, his behavior.

But inside? Don't question any critical or decisive thoughts and their behavior. infomationzon.

Are children wrong or right?

Children who go through these conditions or He spent his childhood in a trauma but hoped that the child would recover. Now whoever has seen those painful scenes or that child has been rejected. How will that baby be? That child will be scared even when he grows up, this child should not go anywhere alone, that child cannot sleep alone at night.

That child may cling to his parents, but how will the parents understand him? They begin to question the child's behavior. That child did not recover. This could be a 5 year old child. Or it could be a 50 year old person working with you. He may have experienced trauma, pain, deception, rejection in any of his past abuses.

Are children wrong or right?

So what will be his habits? Now this child who has experienced trauma. If his parents criticize him and call him a coward.We do that sometimes, don't we? We call him a coward.So the child who has already taken pains with him. With these things he will be far away from his parents. Today his body is 5 years old, tomorrow he will be 50 years old. But he will not talk to his parents about anything, and he will pass that fear on to his children.

Today we need to get rid of the fear of our children. They should tell us everything. No matter how many mistakes they make, they should be reassured that their parents have the solution to all their problems, even if they can't solve it, at least in this difficult time they will be encouraged and find out. We will do our best to do that. A solution.

If you succeed in doing so, not only can you improve your children, but you can also improve a generation. Otherwise I have already told you the result.

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